Tiffany, my neighbor pulled out everything 2 summers ago when they moved in, including a very old and huge lilac that hung over the fence, and I miss it so much I'm trying to figure out where I can fit one in my yard. I sometimes would just stand under it and inhale, especially during light rains. I'm thinking of getting one of the dwarf varieties, Bloomerang Dwarf Dark Purple, and just putting it along the opposite fence. If it's really 3'x3', it should fit fine.