Lin I love your little violet palm tree!
Speaking of aging neglected violets. I keep looking at this mutantly huge mess and putting off a major overhaul. It's almost always blooming, so I keep thinking I'll wait...
I toss water on it when it gets droopy, try to deadhead before the dead flowers drop into the cat's food bowl below, but otherwise, no care. It's about 18 inches across. I think there are two stalks in there.