What is the species of milkweed you have? I'm sure many of them go by the name of swamp milkweed. Maybe it is not the same. Also, if MI-gardener gets wild seed from Michigan (or any northerly source), it is very likely that it would do better with cold stratification, than the same wild species from Florida. Just like the species Homo sapiens has genetically adapted to different environments, so do plant species. Even more so.